Mental health library
South Asian mental health: culture, faith and community
Our culture gives us family, faith and belonging. It can also make it hard to admit we are struggling. These guides talk honestly about stigma, izzat, faith, language and life abroad, and why getting help is not a betrayal of any of them.
"Log kya kahenge?" Mental health stigma in South Asian communities
Why mental health is so stigmatised in South Asian families, how stigma stops people getting help, and how attitudes are changing.
Culture and communityFaith and therapy: can a religious person see a therapist?
How therapy and faith work together, what Islamic and other religious teachings say about seeking help, and choosing a faith-sensitive therapist.
Culture and communityTherapy in your own language: why Urdu, Punjabi or Pashto can matter
Why speaking your mother tongue in therapy can help, how bilingual sessions work, and how to find a therapist who speaks your language.
Culture and communitySouth Asian men's mental health: strong is not silent
Why South Asian men find it hard to ask for help, how depression and anxiety show up differently in men, and how to reach out.
Culture and communityLiving abroad: loneliness, homesickness and adjusting to a new country
The emotional side of moving abroad for work, marriage or family: loneliness, homesickness, racism, visa stress, and how to cope.
Culture and communityMental health for South Asian international students
Pressures on international students in the UK, Ireland, Canada and the UAE, from fees and family expectations to loneliness, and where to get help.
Common questions about culture and community
Why is mental health stigmatised in South Asian communities?
Concerns about family honour, marriage prospects, gossip, and beliefs that struggles reflect weak faith or bad character all play a part. Attitudes are changing, especially among younger generations.
Is it against Islam to see a therapist?
No. Many scholars encourage seeking treatment for illness, including mental illness, and teach that seeking help is compatible with trust in Allah.
Can I have therapy in Urdu, Punjabi or Pashto?
Yes. Therapy O'Clock lists professionals who speak Urdu, Punjabi, Pashto, Saraiki and English.
Why do South Asian people describe mental health problems as physical?
Many grew up without words for emotional distress, and physical complaints are more accepted. Headaches, weakness or chest tightness can be signs of anxiety or depression.
Do South Asian men struggle to seek help?
Often, yes. Expectations to be strong providers and not show weakness can stop men from talking. Depression in men may show as anger, overwork or withdrawal.
Will a therapist understand my culture?
Choosing a professional from a similar background can help. Every professional on Therapy O'Clock has experience working with South Asian clients.
Can living abroad affect mental health?
Yes. Distance from family, loneliness, racism, visa stress and adjusting to a new culture can all affect wellbeing.
What does 'log kya kahenge' mean for mental health?
It means "what will people say?" Fear of judgement is one of the biggest reasons people in our communities delay getting help.
Is therapy confidential from my community?
Yes. Online therapy is private and your professional will not share anything with family or community.
Are attitudes to mental health changing?
Yes. Younger generations, religious leaders, community organisations and public figures are increasingly talking openly about mental health.
Can international students get therapy online?
Yes. Many students far from home find online therapy in their own language a practical option alongside university services.
Need help right now?
If you might act on thoughts of harming yourself, or someone is in danger, call your emergency number now. Free, confidential support:
- United Kingdom Samaritans 116 123 (free, any time) · NHS 111 · emergency 999
- Ireland Samaritans 116 123 · text HELLO to 50808 · emergency 112 or 999
- United Arab Emirates National support line 800 4673 · emergency 999 (ambulance 998)
- Canada Suicide Crisis Helpline 988 (call or text) · emergency 911
